tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post4789948998765680779..comments2023-10-17T05:39:22.486-07:00Comments on Anju's World: Of Alia Bhatt's video and our need for Approvalanjuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07179039821254686206noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-3808820525466020712014-09-01T09:03:37.092-07:002014-09-01T09:03:37.092-07:00To answer your question- yes and no . When we are ...To answer your question- yes and no . When we are strong -perceptions don't matter. But in moments of weakness, we allow them to affect us. No easy answers !!anjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179039821254686206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-90452307969018083942014-09-01T09:01:59.454-07:002014-09-01T09:01:59.454-07:00Kokila, you have raised such pertinent points!! Th...Kokila, you have raised such pertinent points!! Thanks!anjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179039821254686206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-58608482965892991082014-09-01T09:00:45.139-07:002014-09-01T09:00:45.139-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.anjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179039821254686206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-42824740275220338372014-09-01T08:59:56.898-07:002014-09-01T08:59:56.898-07:00Thanks, Shweta.Yes, we should be first thinking of...Thanks, Shweta.Yes, we should be first thinking of our happiness- after all if we are happy we make others happy too. But the question is- do we allow ourselves to think of our happiness?<br />:)anjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179039821254686206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-45877202743017533942014-09-01T08:57:59.744-07:002014-09-01T08:57:59.744-07:00Did you watch her interview with Niranjan somethin...Did you watch her interview with Niranjan something yesterday? She is really good!anjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07179039821254686206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-83086834551000112172014-08-31T23:08:11.767-07:002014-08-31T23:08:11.767-07:00yeah ... that lookout for approval ... if it grows...yeah ... that lookout for approval ... if it grows ,its the worst wish/longing/need... they say out of the three ichachas - dhanecha- the desire to be rich<br /> putrecha- the desire to have sons<br /> yashecha -the desire to be attain fame and approval<br />the third one is the most infectious and heady as it knows no limits and is un-satiable.... sucks the life from a person,... every thing gesture word such a man speaks,does is for approval and acceptance from others... Great post. it nicely points out this needs .Kokila guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14992236728883850513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-16101044141041342112014-08-30T21:15:39.808-07:002014-08-30T21:15:39.808-07:00That was so true, Anju. I too wonder why we try to...That was so true, Anju. I too wonder why we try to make others happy all the time without thinking about what would make us happy. To hell with what people think about us or say about us! At the end of the day, does people's perception about us really matter? Shilpa Guptehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10012657224569764780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-70292078280353481092014-08-30T16:24:34.412-07:002014-08-30T16:24:34.412-07:00What a post Anju. So so true that most of the time...What a post Anju. So so true that most of the times we end up thinking will the others be happy of what we do or not do. And truly we should be making our selves happy and no one else. I really liked your post. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01272566806003281467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-983492794155922282.post-50822352094078107332014-08-30T06:51:58.031-07:002014-08-30T06:51:58.031-07:00Yeah I watched that video and I salute here spirit...Yeah I watched that video and I salute here spirits. It's not easy for anyone to do it.<br />Haters will always be there no matter what. I love her. After I watched highway, I really felt that she can be the star in upcoming future. Acting is what she is meant for and what her career is. But people need to criticize everyone for something. That's why we see all those outrageous messages on social media sites. <br /><br />You said it right. All you need is your own approval. She does not need to prove anything to anybody else. For her age, she is doing pretty well in the industry (and that's not just because of her background but her skills too).Anmol Rawathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06086791539325903369noreply@blogger.com