I write this today with a sense of pride in our ruling class, a pride that I am sure you all ,my countrymen, would also be experiencing. Our politicians have vindicated our faith in them, and of course, their faith in themselves. Please join me in applauding the stand that they individually and collectively took on rape, wherein they apportioned the blame on the victim, the one getting raped.
Since the hypotheses
of the politicians is based on the theory that men are blameless and women are shameless
let’s examine their praiseworthy statements in
the context of the rape of the six
year old, school going Bangalore
girl.
So, when Asha Mirje, NCP leader said in January
2014, and I quote: "Girls
should be very careful about what they wear and at what time they move out in
the city. Their body language should not invite the attention of the potential
rapists lurking around in the streets" , unquote, I applaud her
sagacity. The six year old was obviously inappropriately dressed in her school
uniform. Her body language was, equally obviously, such that it invited
attention. Yes, Ms Mirje, you are right. The girl should have been given body
language coaching before being send to Kindergarten. Did I hear someone say when? Well , the earlier the better, so
maybe the coaching could start when the child is being breast fed. Lesser danger of these little nymphets enticing innocent men.
And can we forget the
January 2013 statement of
Babulal Gaur, BJP leader that "Western
culture is not good for India.
Women in foreign countries wear jeans and T-shirts, dance with other men and
even drink liquor, but that is their culture. It's good for them, but not for India,
where only our traditions and culture are OK.”
Yes, Mr Gaur. We hear you that our
culture is O.K. It is definitely par for the course for six year old’s to begin
their life by being raped. Let’s put our hands together for the great Indian
culture .
Talking of culture
vultures, brings to mind NCW chairperson,
Mamta Sharma’s "Women should be careful about the way they dress
because such incidents are a result of blindly aping the West. This is eroding
our culture and causing such crimes (rapes) to happen."
We are so proud that the National Commission for Women has
Chairpersons who have the ability to put matters in the correct perspective.
The school girl was inappropriately
dressed in her school uniform and therefore she was raped.
Samajwadi Party’s Abu Azmi leaves one speechless with his :"Girls complain when someone
touches them, and even when someone doesn't touch them. It becomes a problem
then, and the man's honour is ruined in this. The solution (to rape) is this:
any woman if, whether married or unmarried, goes along with a man, with or
without her consent, should be hanged….”
The Samajwadi Party
obviously indoctrinates its members well and Azmi seems to have being only toeing
the official line made clear by chief Mulayam Singh Yadav's
remark that "mistakes by boys happens sometimes. Rape accused should
not be hanged".
Naturally, whoever raped the child in Bangalore was just being a boy and since boys
will be boys we should not be spoilsports and meddle with their harmless games,
the favorite being ‘how about a rape today’?
The Trinamool
Congress also seems to be having a clear policy of the Shishya following the
Guru. So, when Guru Mamata Banerjee ,West
Bengal Chief Minister, said "Earlier,
if men and women would hold hands, they would get caught by parents and
reprimanded, but now everything is so open. It's like an open market with open
options. Rapes happen because men and women interact freely" ,
Shishya Chiranjeet Chakraborty ,Trinamool
Congress leader had to come up with ,
"One of the reasons behind the increase in incidents of eve-teasing is
short dresses and short skirts worn by women. This in turn instigates young
men." Pray, Ms Banerjee, could you please throw some light, even if
it is blue, on your free interaction theory viz a viz the six year old raped in a school in Bangalore?
I cannot end without
remembering Sheila Dikshit’s ,former Delhi
chief minister ,quote: "One should not be adventurous being a
woman."
So, hear you , all parents of small girls, you are being unnecessarily
adventurous by sending your daughters to school. The fault is not ever of the boys/men. It is always of
the girl/women. Says who? Say our politicians.
Anju,
ReplyDeleteThat was one powerful post! I so wish our esteemed politicians would read it!
The cringe-worthy comments made by our leaders only goes to show how regressive their mindsets are! If they could, they would ensure every Indian woman covered from head to toe in a burqa, spending her entire life inside the house, leading a pathetic life behind bars, ruled by the so-called moral police.
The encouraging remarks made by our leaders ( wonder why we call them 'that' ) must drive home the message to men of our country that 'raping' is their birthright and no power ,whatsoever, shall ever condemn the heinous act they commit.
I pity our kind and hope for some miracle that will help alter perceptions and change outlooks, which in turn will ensure our progress as a nation in the truest sense.
Wishful thinking!
Shilpa- I think your comment is more powerful than my post- succinct and packing a punch:) Yes, even I wonder why we so quickly bestow the term 'leader' on people who have not exhibited any positive leadership traits!
DeleteThat is again our mistake, Anju. We choose them and put them on a pedestal without any prior appraisal of their capabilities.
DeleteSigh!! Any which way you see it, it's OUR mistake..WE are to blame for our leaders, for the praise worthy situation of our country and also, as you and Kokila said, for the atrocities we face....It is our fault all the way!!!
I am in humble agreement... the 6 year old girl was ADVENTUROUS, NOT properly dressed, Open , must have been in bar consuming liquor, was dancing with men and Yes, was not wearing a sari........ so I am in agreement ,girls OUGHT to behave !
ReplyDeleteOh, Kokila- you are so right- proud of you!
Deletesigh! to choose the lesser evil ....
Deleteits shame on that person who spoiled the life of a 6 yeard old girl.
ReplyDeleteour politicians are like share market not stable on there words nor work